Self Love.

My Mean Girl Era

Lucy and I became fascinated by the idea of the ‘IT girl’. We wanted that life and we believed that we were destined for it.

August 21, 2023

My Bali horror night

The hotel complex in Munduk was absolutely lovely. It looked like an old village surrounded by nature, quiet and incredibly charming. Small paths led to

April 16, 2023

All I want for Christmas

As most of us are getting ready for the holidays, I’ve been thinking about what I want for Christmas this year. I quickly realised that

December 19, 2022

Fuck. I’m about to turn thirty.

I’m currently five days away from turning 30. Flirty dirty thirty. The big three-0. The title of Adele’s most recent album. I know that this

November 16, 2022

Mad or metal? There’s this thing that I do

Warning: MASSIVE Stranger Things season 4 spoilers! Over the years, I’ve been in relationships with quite a few people. I’m currently romantically involved with several

October 5, 2022

I went to Bali with 16 strangers and I was the biggest person there

This summer, I went to Bali with my friend and 16 other people I had never met. This was a big deal for me for several reasons. I can honestly say that, up until a few years ago, this trip simply never would have happened. Or at least I wouldn’t have been a part of it.

September 26, 2022
thecycle

We’ve been here before.

Hello. How have you been? It’s been a while. Yeah, I know that’s on me. Here I am, once again, to tell you that I

May 3, 2022

I’m fat

For someone who looks like me, there’s always room for improvement. I believed all of that. Until I didn’t anymore and I started realising that it was never my fault.

August 20, 2021

How I bought a flat in London

In March of this year, I did something that had always seemed too good to be true. I bought a flat in London! If you

July 26, 2021

A Love Letter

To my chosen family, I’ve been meaning to write to you for years, but I never knew where to start. Why would anyone be interested

February 14, 2021

In 2021, I will have the audacity

I don’t exactly believe in New Year’s resolutions. Why do we pick one of the most depressing times of the year to make a promise

February 8, 2021

My favourite books of 2020

2020 was the year of staying at home. So, naturally, that meant we all had more time than ever to explore our living rooms, catch

January 2, 2021

Savoury Muffins (NL)

De man en de vrouw die aan het tafeltje tegenover mij gaan zitten, zijn duidelijk op date. Een eerste date. Dat leid ik af uit

December 6, 2020

Savoury Muffins

There’s a man and a woman sitting at the table opposite mine. Judging by the fact that you can almost touch the tension in the

October 8, 2020

Hi there!

I hope you’ll allow me to tell you a bit more about myself and what brought me here.

October 8, 2020